In this devotional, Alisha Headley offers encouragement and biblical wisdom for those struggling with comparison after experiencing a miscarriage. She acknowledges the deep pain of loss, especially when surrounded by others who are getting pregnant. She warns of the dangers of comparison, which can lead to jealousy, resentment, and bitterness, and emphasizes the need to guard one’s heart against these destructive emotions.
Headley outlines three key ways to overcome comparison after a miscarriage:
- Remove the Labels and Lies – Identify and reject false labels and lies, such as feeling unworthy or believing infertility defines one’s value. Instead, replace them with biblical truths about God’s purpose and sovereignty.
- Know Your Worth – Base self-worth on God’s love and truth rather than life’s circumstances. A miscarriage does not define one’s identity or position in Christ.
- Guard Your Heart Above All Else – Protect emotional well-being by being mindful of influences that fuel comparison, including speech, social media, conversations, and environments. Establishing healthy boundaries can help prevent jealousy from taking root.
The devotional concludes with a heartfelt prayer, asking for God’s comfort, truth, and guidance to replace comparison with trust in His plan. It reminds readers that God is close to the brokenhearted and will use their pain for good.
Headley also provides additional resources for healing after a miscarriage, encouraging readers to lean on biblical promises for hope and reassurance.
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